Are You Praying In Detail?
By George M. Kackos
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King David wanted his prayers to be like incense-beaten fine, heated up and
sweet-smelling to God. Your prayers can be the same way, if you follow the
formula in this article!
You want to pray. You realize you must pray effectively to get close to God and to receive His help.
At first, the words flow freely. You feel good. You feel like God is really
listening.
But then, as quickly as it began, the flow diminishes. Soon it is a trickle. The
well is running dry, although almost no time has elapsed! You can't think of
anything to say, or anything that seems worth saying. Feeling frustrated and
disrespectful toward God, you shamefully give up.
Sound familiar?
Praying effectively is not easy, but it is vital if you wish to build a strong
relationship with God if you want to enjoy a right attitude and real answers to
your prayers.
What can you do? How can you lengthen your prayers and make them more effective?
How can you build a bond with God that pleases Him and brings you joy and peace
of mind?
Make your prayers like incense
Let's begin by understanding what God doesn't want. Jesus made it
clear-repetitive, mindless prayers that require little or no thought are a waste
of time: "When you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathen do. For they
think that they will be heard for their many words" (Matthew 6:7). They won't!
So what is the right way to pray?
The Bible more than once likens prayer to incense. David prayed, "Let my prayer
be set before You as incense, the lifting up of my hands as the evening
sacrifice" (Psalm 141:2). Seated around God's throne in heaven are 24
elders-spirit beings who serve God. In their hands are bowls of incense,
picturing our prayers (Revelation 5:8).
But why does incense represent prayer?
• It is beaten fine. To make your prayers effective, you must pray in detail.
Name names. Give circumstances. Describe feelings. Avoid vague generalities.
• It is a blend of ingredients (Exodus 30:34-36). Your prayers should contain a
blend of thoughts on a variety of topics. Discuss everything with God
(Philippians 4:6).
• It is heated up. Without heat, incense is of little value. It doesn't give off
its aroma. The same is true of prayer-without fervency (heat), prayer is dead,
lifeless, useless (Matthew 15:78)!
• It smells sweet. Prayer should be appealing to God-something that He wants to
savor (Proverbs 15:8). If you obey God in everything you do, your prayers will
please Him-and they will get results (I John 3:22).
Jesus' sample prayer outline
Jesus explains in Matthew 6:9, "In this manner, therefore, pray." In verses 9
through 13, He went on to give a basic outline you should follow when you enter
your private place (verse 6) to converse with God the Father.
Of course, the exact words you should speak are not these. Jesus was teaching
that you should take His outline and enlarge upon it. Let's examine this sample
prayer:
• Our Father in heaven (verse 9). Through the indwelling of the holy spirit we
become children of God and heirs of salvation. Besides concentrating on this
special relationship with your majestic Father in heaven, humbly remember how,
as He sits on his throne, He exercises complete control of all the universe. You
must develop a deep awareness that God truly is your great Father in heaven.
• Hallowed be Your name. God is Creator, Revelator and Ruler, with vast powers
that are always used in perfect love and wisdom. Let Him know in your own words
how deeply you appreciate and admire all the fruits of His character (Galatians
5:22-23).
• Your kingdom come (verse10). The disastrous problems of this world will cease
in the coming world tomorrow, and an age of happiness and harmony will prevail!
God wants us to look beyond this world and take a special interest in the coming
utopia. He wants us to pray that God's own true Church will successfully prepare
for it.
• Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Doing God's will is a
requirement for salvation (Matthew 7:21). Ask God daily for a heart that will
willingly surrender to His direction.
• Give us this day our daily bread (verse 11). Each day you have pressing needs
that weigh heavily on your mind. You should bring these, as well as the needs of
others, before God. But don't bring them in a selfish attitude-you assuredly
won't get results (James 4:3). Instead, be loving and thankful. Think of the
needs of others as well as your own (Philippians 2:3-4, 6). Think of how you can
use any blessings God gives you to serve others, also.
.And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our
debtors (verse 12). Debts refer to sins that need to be forgiven by God. Besides
repenting before God (I John 1:9), you must be willing to forgive others when
they repent (Luke 17:3-4). If you are harsh and spiteful, God won't forgive your
sins.
• And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one (verse
13). Ask God to protect you and His other people from accidents and illnesses.
Ask Him to heal those who are ill and to encourage those who need more
inspiration. Above all, ask God's protection from Satan the devil. Ask God to
give you the desire to obey Him, "for it is God who works in you both to will
and to do for His good pleasure" (Philippians 2:13).
• For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. End your
prayers as you begin them-with praise to God and statements recognizing His
glory and power and coming Kingdom.
Now that you have a better grasp of what God wants, how do you transform this
outline into a dynamic prayer that gets results?
Praying effectively
Don't neglect to take time to meditate. Ask yourself: "What do I want to bring
to God's attention? What does He want to hear?"
Follow David's example. He cried: "Give ear to my words, 0 Lord, consider my
meditation. Give heed to the voice of my cry, my King and my God, for to You I
will pray. My voice You shall hear in the morning, 0 Lord; in the morning I will
direct it to You, and I will look up" (Psalm 5:1-3). Many people find it best to
pray in the morning, when their minds are clear and fresh and the day's
challenges and opportunities still lie ahead.
Write down your thoughts. You could label note cards, for example, with headings
such as Heavenly Father, God's Work, God's Name, God's Kingdom, God's Will,
Personal Needs, Needs of Others, Forgiveness, Deliverance.
Some have found it useful to divide a loose leaf notebook into sections covering
these and other areas. Pages can then be added or removed as needs change.
Be sure to list sick and needy people as well as words, phrases or names that
will trigger thoughts when you pray. If it's worth thinking about, it's worth
praying about.
By studying your Bible, talking to others and thinking deeply, you can come up
with all kinds of areas to pray about. Now you'll
face a new dilemma: How to adequately cover all these subjects in the time you
have for prayer!
The answer: Vary the content. Change what you say. You can do this by going
through your cards or notebook daily, but emphasizing different sections. By
doing this you will pray about all the essential things. Nothing will be left
out.
Of course, don't let your cards or notebook become a straightjacket. You don't
want your prayers to sound like memorized speeches, which can become vain
repetitions. Take time to review your notes before and as you pray so you can
talk about them from a fresh viewpoint.
Let current events and whatever is on your mind stimulate your prayers as well.
God's spirit will move you and intercede for you with God (Romans 8:26).
And pray on your knees during your daily prayers (Psalm 95:6, Luke 22:41),
unless it is physically impossible for you to do so. Of course, in emergencies,
or when you simply have a spare moment and would like to talk to God, you may
pray wherever you are. "Pray without ceasing," says I Thessalonians 5:17.
The results are worth it!
Think about your prayers from God's point of view. What would you want to hear?
Short, unimaginative, dull prayers mumbled from a fogged mind just moments
before you flop into bed? Or prayers that are whiny and shamefully
self-centered?
No! You would want to hear well thought-out, heartfelt, outgoing prayers that
are presented from your (God's) point of view.
This is why God gave us the outline prayer. Take time to think deeply about what
you'll say and then say it fervently, really meaning it!
The results will be well worth the effort. Jesus said, "Most assuredly, I say to
you, whatever you ask the Father in My name, He will give you.... Ask, and you
will receive, that your joy may be full" (John 16:23-24)!
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